Janda lebih berhak atas dirinya daripada walinya, dan gadis dimintai persetujuannya - diamnya adalah tanda setuju
Imam Ahmad : 1790
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ مَهْدِيٍّ عَنْ مَالِكٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ الْفَضْلِ عَنْ نَافِعِ بْنِ جُبَيْرٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ الْأَيِّمُ أَحَقُّ بِنَفْسِهَا مِنْ وَلِيِّهَا وَالْبِكْرُ تُسْتَأْمَرُ فِي نَفْسِهَا وَإِذْنُهَا صُمَاتُهَا
A tene na e so [Abdurrahman bin Mahdi] so alondo na [Malik] so alondo na [Abdolla bin Al Fadhl] so alondo na [Nafi’ bin Jubair] so alondo na [Ibn Abbas] atene; The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam said: 'The widow has more rights over herself than her guardian, while the virgin must be asked for her opinion, and the sign of her consent is her silence'.