Imam Ahmad : 26307

حَدَّثَنَا هَاشِمٌ قَالَ ثَنَا عَبْدُ الْحَمِيدِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي شَهْرٌ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتَ يَزِيدَ الْأَنْصَارِيَّةَ تُحَدِّثُ زَعَمَتْ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَرَّ فِي الْمَسْجِدِ يَوْمًا وَعُصْبَةٌ مِنْ النِّسَاءِ قُعُودٌ فَأَلْوَى بِيَدِهِ إِلَيْهِنَّ بِالسَّلَامِ قَالَ إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَانَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ إِيَّاكُنَّ وَكُفْرَانَ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ قَالَتْ إِحْدَاهُنَّ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ مِنْ كُفْرَانِ اللَّهِ قَالَ بَلَى إِنَّ إِحْدَاكُنَّ تَطُولُ أَيْمَتُهَا وَيَطُولُ تَعْنِيسُهَا ثُمَّ يُزَوِّجُهَا اللَّهُ الْبَعْلَ وَيُفِيدُهَا الْوَلَدَ وَقُرَّةَ الْعَيْنِ ثُمَّ تَغْضَبُ الْغَضْبَةَ فَتُقْسِمُ بِاللَّهِ مَا رَأَتْ مِنْهُ سَاعَةَ خَيْرٍ قَطُّ فَذَلِكَ مِنْ كُفْرَانِ نِعَمِ اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ وَذَلِكَ مِنْ كُفْرَانِ الْمُنَعَّمِينَ

Narrated to us [Hasyim] said, Narrated to us [Al Hamid] said, has told me [Syahr] said, I heard [Asma' bint Yazid Al Anshariyah] tell, he confessed that one day the Messenger of Allah Peace be upon him passed by a mosque, and there was a group of women who were sitting around, so he waved his hand at them with greetings, he said: "Keep away from your disbelief in the Almighty giver of favors, stay away from being ungrateful to the Almighty who gives favors." One of us said, "O Messenger of Allah, we seek refuge in Allah, O Nabiyullah, what does kufr mean to Allah?" He said: "One of you postponed her marriage until she became an old maid, then Allah married her to a man and gave her a child as a comfort. But then she got angry and swore in the name of Allah that she had never seen the slightest kindness in her (husband), then that is what is meant by discrediting Allah, and that is what is meant by disbelieving the Almighty who gives blessings.