Pentingnya meminta pendapat janda dan persetujuan gadis sebelum Nikah

Imam Darimi : 2093

حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَقُ بْنُ عِيسَى حَدَّثَنِي مَالِكٌ أَوَّلُ شَيْءٍ سَأَلْتُهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ عَنْ نَافِعِ بْنِ جُبَيْرٍ عَنْ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ تُسْتَأْذَنُ الْبِكْرُ وَإِذْنُهَا صُمَاتُهَا

Narrated to us [Ishaq bin Isa] Narrated to me [Malik] the first time I asked him he said:Narrated to us [Abdullah bin Al Fadhl] from [Nafi' bin Jubair] from [Ibn Abbas], he said:The messenger of Allah Peace be upon him said: "A girl is asked for permission, and her permission is to remain silent.