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Imam Tirmidzi : 1005حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو السَّوَّاقُ الْبَلْخِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا حَاتِمُ بْنُ إِسْمَعِيلَ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ مُسْلِمِ بْنِ هُرْمُزَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدٍ وَسَعِيدٍ ابْنَيْ عُبَيْدٍ عَنْ أَبِي حَاتِمٍ الْمُزَنِيِّ قَالَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِذَا جَاءَكُمْ مَنْ تَرْضَوْنَ دِينَهُ وَخُلُقَهُ فَأَنْكِحُوهُ إِلَّا تَفْعَلُوا تَكُنْ فِتْنَةٌ فِي الْأَرْضِ وَفَسَادٌ قَالُوا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ وَإِنْ كَانَ فِيهِ قَالَ إِذَا جَاءَكُمْ مَنْ تَرْضَوْنَ دِينَهُ وَخُلُقَهُ فَأَنْكِحُوهُ ثَلَاثَ مَرَّاتٍقَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ غَرِيبٌ وَأَبُو حَاتِمٍ الْمُزَنِيُّ لَهُ صُحْبَةٌ وَلَا نَعْرِفُ لَهُ عَنْ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ غَيْرَ هَذَا الْحَدِيثِ
Narrated to us by [Muhammad bin 'Amr bin As Sawwaq Al Balkhi], narrated to us by [Hatim bin Isma'il] from [Abdullah bin Muslim bin Hurmuz] from [Muhammad] and [Sa'id] the sons of 'Ubaid, from [Abu Hatim Al Muzani] who said; The Messenger of Allah peace and blessings be upon him said: 'If someone comes proposing to your daughters or relatives, and you are pleased with his religion and character, then marry him. If you do not, there will be tribulation (fitnah) on earth and corruption.' The companions asked; 'Even if he is not wealthy.' He said: 'If someone comes proposing to your daughters, and you are pleased with his religion and character, then marry him.' He said it three times. Abu Isa said; 'This is a gharib hadith. Abu Hatim Al Muzani is a companion, but we do not know him to have narrated hadiths from the Prophet peace and blessings be upon him except this one.'