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Imam Ahmad : 19160حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الْحَارِثِ حَدَّثَنِي شِبْلُ بْنُ عَبَّادٍ وَابْنُ أَبِي بُكَيْرٍ يَعْنِي يَحْيَى بْنَ أَبِي بُكَيْرٍ حَدَّثَنَا شِبْلُ بْنُ عَبَّادٍ الْمَعْنَى قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَبَا قَزَعَةَ يُحَدِّثُ عَمْرَو بْنَ دِيْنَارٍ عَنْ حَكِيمِ بْنِ مُعَاوِيَةَ الْبَهْزِيِّ عَنْ أَبِيهِ أَنَّهُ قَالَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنِّي حَلَفْتُ هَكَذَا وَنَشَرَ أَصَابِعَ يَدَيْهِ حَتَّى تُخْبِرَنِي مَا الَّذِي بَعَثَكَ اللَّهُ تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَى بِهِ قَالَ بَعَثَنِي اللَّهُ تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَى بِالْإِسْلَامِ قَالَ وَمَا الْإِسْلَامُ قَالَ شَهَادَةُ أَنْ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ وَأَنَّ مُحَمَّدًا عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ وَتُقِيمُ الصَّلَاةَ وَتُؤْتِي الزَّكَاةَ أَخَوَانِ نَصِيرَانِ لَا يَقْبَلُ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ مِنْ أَحَدٍ تَوْبَةً أَشْرَكَ بَعْدَ إِسْلَامِهِ قَالَ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا حَقُّ زَوْجِ أَحَدِنَا عَلَيْهِ قَالَ تُطْعِمُهَا إِذَا أَكَلْتَ وَتَكْسُوهَا إِذَا اكْتَسَيْتَ وَلَا تَضْرِبْ الْوَجْهَ وَلَا تُقَبِّحْ وَلَا تَهْجُرْ إِلَّا فِي الْبَيْتِ ثُمَّ قَالَ هَاهُنَا تُحْشَرُونَ هَاهُنَا تُحْشَرُونَ هَاهُنَا تُحْشَرُونَ ثَلَاثًا رُكْبَانًا وَمُشَاةً وَعَلَى وُجُوهِكُمْ تُوفُونَ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ سَبْعِينَ أُمَّةً أَنْتُمْ آخِرُ الْأُمَمِ وَأَكْرَمُهَا عَلَى اللَّهِ تَبَارَكَ وَتَعَالَى تَأْتُونَ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ وَعَلَى أَفْوَاهِكُمْ الْفِدَامُ أَوَّلُ مَا يُعْرِبُ عَنْ أَحَدِكُمْ فَخِذُهُ قَالَ ابْنُ أَبِي بُكَيْرٍ فَأَشَارَ بِيَدِهِ إِلَى الشَّامِ فَقَالَ إِلَى هَاهُنَا تُحْشَرُونَ
Narrated to us [Abdullah bin Harits], has narrated to me [Syibl bin 'Abbad] and [Ibnu Abu Bukair namely Yahya bin Abu Bukair], Narrated to us [Syibl bin 'Abbad] in meaning, he said: I heard [Abu Qaza'ah] narrate to 'Amru bin Dinar from [Hakim bin Mu'awiyah Al Bahzi] from [his father] that he said to the Prophet Peace be upon him; "Truly I have sworn like this, -while spreading his fingers- until you inform me for what Allah Tabaraka wa Ta'ala sent you?." He said: "Allah Tabaraka Wata'ala sent me with Islam." Mu'awiyah asked; "What is Islam?." He answered: "The testimony of Laa Ilaaha Illallah wa Anna MuhammaAnd 'Abduhu Wa Rasuluhu (testifying that there is no god except Allah and Muhammad is His servant and His messenger), you establish the prayer, you pay the zakat, they are two things that are always connected, and Allah May Allah be pleased with him will not accept the repentance of a servant who associates partners with Him after he has entered Islam." Mu'awiyah said: I asked the Messenger of Allah Peace be upon him; "O Messenger of Allah, what is the right of a wife toward the husband?." He said: "Feeding her when you eat, providing her clothing when you clothe yourself, do not hit her face, do not revile her and do not perform hajr (separate yourself from the bedroom) except in one house." Then he continued: "Here you all will be gathered, here you all will be gathered and here you all will be gathered -as many as three times-, in a state of riding and not walking on foot and you will be gathered on the day of resurrection after your death among seventy nations, while you are the very last nation of them, while you are the nation that is honored in the sight of Allah Tabaraka Wata'ala. You come on the day of resurrection in a state of your mouths being locked, and the first to speak are your legs (thighs)." Ibnu Abu Bukair said: Then he showed with the gesture of his hand toward the direction of Syam (Greater Syria) while saying: "To there you all will be gathered.